Thank you to some very messages of support for Happy Valley Pride Digital 2020.
Thank you to some very messages of support for Happy Valley Pride Digital 2020.
The Info Fair is a key part of our festival each year. With all activities and events going digital for 2020, so has the fair.
Download and keep information about a range of partner organisations.
Below some fantastic organisations that make a real difference to the community tell you about what they do in their own words.
Burnley FC LGBT Supporter’s Group work with Burnley FC and the local community to promote inclusivity and create a safe space for LGBT supporters
Turfed Out are on a mission to make Burnley Football Club an inclusive, welcoming and positive space for LGBT Supporters. The group, and the club, are committed to challenging discrimination and inequality within football. We’re always looking for new members to get involved with our activism and to grow the social side of our activities. If you’re a fan of Burnley FC and would like to get involved, please contact us via our social media links and we’d love to talk to you!
We provide 1:1 and family support for young people under 25 with issues around gender and sexual identity. We also have a weekly LGBTQ+ youth group.
We provide training for organisations and classroom based LGBTQ+ workshops in schools for Primary age pupils in years 5 and 6 based around the new RSE and National Curriculum expectations.
We are still taking referrals. For more information people can contact us at [email protected] or 01422 371993.
The Brunswick Centre enables people from the communities we serve to make informed choices, build healthier relationships, and live positive lives free of stigma. Our services are confidential, and we care about your information, we put safeguarding and data protection at the heart of everything we do.
We have a HIV service that supports people living with HIV, work around HIV prevention, including free, rapid and confidential HIV tests out in the community, Stop Smoking support for people from LGBT communities and people with HIV, Counselling for people with or directly affected by HIV, and for homosexually active men.
We have a LGBT Youth service funded by the National Lottery for Kirklees. Provide a training service offering a variety of awareness sessions/briefings, and we are a hate crime incident reporting centre.
Happy Virtual Pride, it is great that this is happening in these unprecedented times.
Calderdale and Kirklees and can be accessed through a text message with an address to post them to on 07874643429 or email us on condomsbypost @thebrunswickcentre.org.uk (we do not keep or share details)
HIV TESTING – Although at the moment we cannot offer our free, confidential and rapid. HIV tests you can get a free test by post via https://freetesting.HIV or you can contact the
Calderdale and Huddersfield Sexual Health service on 01422 261370 or 01422 261365, to be triaged over the phone, they can then offer an appointment where appropriate.
The West Yorkshire Archive Service collects and preserves historical records of all kinds dating from the twelfth century to the present day. We offer a wide range of services including using archives in our search rooms, our Research Service, learning and community support, and conservation and preservation advice.
Whilst our physical search rooms are currently closed to the public, our virtual doors are always open! There are lots of resources available online on our website www.wyjs.org.uk/archives and you can get in touch with us with any archive related questions at [email protected]
Some collections are already fully accessible online, including:
West Yorkshire Queer Stories
From Wetherby to Wakefield, Cleckheaton to Castleford, everyone has a memory worth sharing. From 2018-2020 West Yorkshire Queer Stories collected stories about LGBTIQ+ life, from the every day to the extraordinary. Interviews took place across the region to make sure that LGBTIQ+ voices were captured and conserved as part of local history. Those stories will be preserved at the West Yorkshire Archive Service Leeds and are available to view on the WYQS website
The Diaries of Anne Lister of Shibden Hall
We are proud to be the home of the diaries of Anne Lister of Shibden Hall, 1806-1840, often known as the ‘first modern lesbian’, and the inspiration for the BBC/HBO drama ‘Gentleman Jack’. The diaries were inscribed in the UNESCO Memory of the World Register in recognition of their substantial cultural significance, and have a particular interest for the LGBTIQ+ community.
High quality digital images of every page of Anne’s diaries are available to view on the West Yorkshire Archive Service online catalogue. Find out more about how to view the diaries, and read an introduction to Anne in our online exhibition.
The true extent of Anne’s diaries remained hidden because of Anne’s use of a code or ‘crypt-hand’ but an Award Winning volunteer project is now helping to make transcripts available. There are currently over 140 volunteer ‘Code Breakers’ globally with an active social media community sharing advice on transcribing, stories from the diaries, and their own personal and emotional interactions with Anne Lister. Join the conversation on Twitter at #AnneListerCodeBreaker.
We have launched a series of videos featuring LGBTQ+ friendly stories for children across Calder Valley and beyond – as part of our series of digital events for 2020. The four special stories all have an LGBTQ+ focus and have been read by friends and supporters of Happy Valley Pride.
The story of two male penguins, Roy and Silo, who create a family together.
Authors: Justin Richardson, Peter Parnell, Illustrator: Henry Cole. Published by Simon & Schuster.
Read by Sean Pert.
An award-winning picture book about self-confidence and love.
Author: Jessica Love, Illustrator: Jessica Love. Published by Candlewick Press.
Read by Terry Logan
The wonderful story of Cliff, the crocodile who wants to wear a dress.
Author: Jeanne Willis, Illustrator: Stephanie Laberis. Published by Hodder Children’s Books.
Read by Jenny Wilson.
One of the only original board books about gay parents!
Author: Lesléa Newman, Illustrator: Carol Thompson. Published by Tricycle Press.
Read by Lisa Tregellas.
Chair Tim Whitehead commented:
“A key part of what we do at Happy Valley Pride is engaging with all parts of the community. As part of our digital focus for 2020, we wanted to provide something that teachers and parents can use to engage with children using stories with an LGBTQ+ focus. These wonderful, inspiring and powerful stories are read by friends of Happy Valley Pride and we hope children (and grown-ups) will enjoy listening to them. Thank you to the authors for their kind permission, and to our special storytellers.”
Check out what else is happening as part of Happy Valley Pride Digital.
We are very excited to announce a series of exclusive, free to attend, online events from Thursday 23 to Saturday 25 July, the week that Happy Valley Pride should have taken place.
Jinx Monsoon – A Midsummer Night Scream – Saturday 25 July, 8pm.
Happy Valley Pride has established a reputation for bringing world class acts to the area, and following this tradition we are thrilled that international drag superstar Jinkx Monsoon will perform an exclusive show created especially for us. One of the biggest stars to come from the Netflix mega-hit TV show Rupaul’s Drag Race, Jinkx won season five and has gone on to tour worldwide.
‘A drag queen at the artistic genius end of the spectrum of sassiness’ – ★★★★★ Attitude
‘Straight or gay, everyone leaves this show with sides aching from laughter’ – The New York Times.
Kirsty’s Poptastic Piano Singalong D*I*S*C*O Special and After-party – Friday 24 July, 8pm.
Kirsty Newton will lead another of our hugely popular singalong events, this time we’re hitting the dancefloor and singing classic Disco and pop anthems. The singalong will be followed by an after-party with ‘Legendary’ (BBC 6 Music) DJ Red Helen, who will play a set from her sell-out Trades Club night D*I*S*C*O.
Writing Anne Lister: An LGBTQ+ History – Thursday 23 July, 7pm.
Writer and academic Dr Jill Liddington, whose research into the diaries of Anne Lister inspired the BBC/HBO series Gentleman Jack, will provide an insight into the life and times of the iconic Anne Lister ‘the first modern lesbian’. This talk was originally due to take place back in March just before lockdown hit, the event will take place live and there will be an opportunity to ask questions.
Happy Valley Pride’s Chair, Tim Whitehead says
“We’re pulling out all the stops with very limited funding and resources to create something special for our wonderful community in a very challenging year. Even though we can’t get together in person it’s important to still show our Pride.”
Be Here, Be You, Be Proud!
Shantay, you stay!
RuPaul’s Drag Race winner, Jinkx Monsoon will host an exclusive, free, online show, especially for Happy Valley Pride in July 2020.
Jinkx won season 5 of the mega-hit show and is one of the biggest stars to come from the Drag Race phenomenon.
An accomplished singer and comedian performing shows worldwide, Jinkx tours extensively throughout the UK – most recently selling out shows in Manchester and London.
More details will be announced very soon.
She’s back! Due to popular demand, Happy Valley Pride presents Kirsty’s Poptastic Singalong – Back to the 80s Special!
On Friday 5 June at 8pm the ‘enormously talented’ (BBC), ‘musical powerhouse’ (Chortle) Kirsty Newton will be back to lead us all in a life affirming singalong party, and this time we’re going back to the 80s!
The event will take place online, we’ll be singing some of the biggest 80s anthems as chosen by you. Kids are welcome too!
The last singalong attracted over 100 people, so save the date and more details will follow shortly.
There has never been a more vital time to make sure you are looking after your mental health. There are so many hints and tips around on maintaining your mental wellbeing during these difficult times. Remember there are no hard and fast rules! Everyone is different, we are all coping with different challenges and living in very different circumstances. So here I offer some of the common themes I have noticed and offer up some of my own thoughts.
Pick and choose what you think may be useful for you! Anything you do will be beneficial. Do what you can and don’t beat yourself up if you have a bad day. Tomorrow will be a better day.
Also take a look at some of our specific examples of how you can keep active, positive and entertained.
Avoid news overload
Obviously it is important to keep up-to-date with developments but it is useful to set limits. The constant flow of information is overwhelming online, on TV, on the radio – the news is everywhere. Perhaps catch updates in the morning then again in the evening. You won’t miss anything if you are not continually monitoring the situation. Also stick to reputable news sources – that friend on Facebook may mean well but sharing unfounded conspiracy theories really doesn’t help anyone!
Maintain a routine
Everyone has experienced a huge shift in lifestyle in recent times and this has a significant impact on your overall health. Try to maintain some kind of routine. Go to bed at the same time (ish) each night, try and stick to three meals a day, go for a lunchtime walk etc. If you notice your routine slipping, try and get it back on track as quickly as possible. For example, I noticed I was starting to have lunch earlier and earlier each day, when it got as early as 10.30am I realised I needed to reset my routine!
Try and think of three things each day you are grateful for. Doing this regularly can help you feel more positive and optimistic. Feeling ‘grateful’ isn’t always easy, especially at the moment, but focusing on the good things in your life really will give you a boost each day. I try to take a few minutes each day to write down a brief list of things I am grateful for or happy about. Often it is something simple as seeing a deer in the woods, that there is a new series of Schitt’s Creek on Netflix, or I managed to get out for a run.
Organize your mind
Writing down what you have to do each day will help you plan more efficiently and have a more productive day. Writing it down gets it out of your head, and a list often seems more manageable than random thoughts. It doesn’t have to be detailed or extensive. I try and create a quick note on my phone of what I need to do each day and also what I want to do each day.
Organize your space
We all have different living situations. Living alone or with others, try and ensure a sense or organization where possible. You don’t have to be ultra-tidy but keeping on top of household chores will stop things becoming overwhelming down the line. If you live with others and you have some space for yourself, try to create a bit of sanctuary where you can go to relax and unwind on your own.
Technology is a wonderful thing and helps us all keep connected. You can video call friends and family, join virtual quizzes and much more. You can also keep in touch with a simple text or WhatsApp. If you are really old fashioned you can even phone someone. However, all this can also be overwhelming so don’t feel bad about not joining everything or jeeping in constant touch with everyone you have ever met. Like most things in life, it is about balance! And this relates directly to the next tip…
Do not compare yourself to others
You may think everyone is coping with the current situation better than you. It seems to me everyone is using their spare time to bake banana bread, do all the DIY jobs they have been putting off, learn a new skill etc. I have mainly been watching Peaky Blinders and Schitt’s Creeks – and that is fine! What people put out on their on social media is rarely truly representative of how people really feel. Everyone will have their ups and downs.
Whatever that means for you! That may be a one-mile jog or running a half marathon. Maybe it is a Joe Wicks PE class or maybe it is dancing around your living room. Trying to do a bit more each time is great, but then if you skip a day that is fine as well. The key thing is to just to keep moving.
Everything in moderation
Alcohol and food sales through the roof and it is unsurprising we are seeking comfort in a glass of wine and slice of pizza. When this becomes a bottle of wine and full pizza every night it may be time to cut back a little (I am speaking from experience). Try and keep the treats for the weekend for example. Though again don’t worry too much if you slip up. Just try and get back into a sensible routine.
Get some head space
Take some time each day to give yourself some headspace. This could be meditation, mindfulness, brain training or whatever works for you. If you haven’t tried these things before, give it a go. Give yourself a dedicated slot just for your head – even just five minutes will make a difference. There is lots of information online and loads of apps available. I try and do a short hypnosis session every day, using an app to have 30 minutes to relax and think positive thoughts and I always feel better afterwards.
Give yourself a break
Working from home, trying your best at home schooling, maintaining your studying or whatever it is you may be doing, regular breaks will help you feel refreshed and come back to your tasks with more energy and focus. With us all spending most of our time at home, it can be hard to separate things out. Just going to a different room, or in to the garden if you have one or sticking your head out the window if you don’t, can really help.
Really, give yourself a break!
This is the most important thing! GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK! Don’t be too hard on yourself if you’re having a difficult day. We all have to adjust to the “new normal”. What is happening is a big deal. There will be good days and there will be bad days. Don’t beat yourself up if you feel low, or if you haven’t achieved everything you wanted to or if you ended up eating the entire packet of hob nobs. It happens, so pick yourself up and move on.
Although it may not seem like it at the moment this will pass! It will take time and things will be different on the other side, but it is good to look forward, start planning and give yourself some longer term goals.
Finally, if you need to reach out for more support
There are many organizations ready and able to help if you do need support. If it does all feel a bit overwhelming don’t hesitate to ask for help.
Despite lockdown, the world is getting ready to mark once again International Day against Homophobia, Transphobia and Biphobia (IDAHOBIT). Created in 2004, IDAHOBIT draws the attention to the violence and discrimination experienced by lesbian, gay, bisexuals, transgender, intersex people and all other people with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities or expressions, and sex characteristics. This year will, of course, be quite different, but by no means any less vital. The pandemic affects every single person, however the LGBTQ+ community may be experiencing increased discrimination and are disproportionately impacted by the wider healthcare and wellbeing implications of the current situation.
Manchester based LGBT Foundation has reported a huge spike in calls to their crisis line during the lockdown. Calls include those in isolation experiencing violence or discrimination with abusive or unsupportive families. More people are concerned about not being able to attend sexual health appointments. Many just need someone to talk to.
They have a number of services to help support vulnerable members of the LGBTQ+ community during this time including a Coronavirus Hub. It provides a range of tools and resources to support the LGBTQ+ community during this time.
Did you know – May 17 was specifically chosen to commemorate the World Health Organization’s decision in 1990 to declassify homosexuality as a mental disorder.
Happy Valley Pride present our first ever live online event – Kirsty’s Poptastic Piano Singalong – Gay Anthems Special!
Many of you will remember Kirsty Newton from the opening night of Happy Valley Pride last year. The ‘enormously talented’ (BBC), ‘musical powerhouse’ (Chortle) will blast away your lockdown blues when she leads everyone in a singalong set of your favourite gay anthems – live on Friday 8 May at 8pm.
You vote for your favourite song! We will post a list of gay anthems for you to choose from later this week. Once voting is over we will provide a lyric sheet for you to download so you can sing along with Kirsty.
The event is free, a link will be posted on our Facebook page on the day, please check back for more details.
Until then stay safe, stay at home and we’ll see you for a big LGBTQ+ knees up!
Updated 29 April 2020
During this time of social distancing and self-isolation, it is vital to keep safe and important to stay positive, active and entertained. Happy Valley Pride has produced some useful links and resources to help.
We will keep adding to the list over the coming weeks and encourage you to provide your suggestions and recommendations on our Facebook page.
The resources are listed are free to access – simply click the links below for more information.
Healthy Minds Calderdale – Calderdale’s local mental health charity is led by people who have personal experience of emotional distress. They have a number of services available during this time.
LGBT Foundation – Delivering advice, support and information services to lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans (LGBT) communities. They have a dedicated page for specific advice related to services available during the current crisis.
Dolly Trolley – Join in with Drag Aerobics on Facebook and Instagram every Wednesday, 7.30 to 8.30pm.
To The Max Fitness – Free online sessions are available from Happy Valley Pride supporter Max.
Cooking with Antoni from Queer Eye – As well as exercise, it is important to keep nourished and Antoni provides quick and easy recipes on his Instagram.
There are a huge range of podcast available – check out the best LGBTQ+ Podcasts according to Attitude. Here are some of our additional favourites.
Queer Margins – A podcast hearing from the voices on the margins of the LBGTQ+ community.
Getting Curious with Jonathan Van Ness – Jonathan from Queer Eye gets curious about a range of different things! Go with him on his journey to find out more.
OUT with Suzi Ruffell – The fantastic lesbian comedian Suzi Ruffell, who played Happy Valley Pride last year, launches a new podcast on the 6 April. She looks at the lives of LGBTQ+ people, coming out and finding your place in the world – for anyone has ever felt like an outsider.
Beautiful Thing – The fantastic film from 1996 by Jonathan Harvey is now available on Channel 4.
BFI Flare at home – you can experience selections from BFI Flare: London LGBTIQ+ Film Festival’s 2020 programme from the comfort of your couch with a free 14-day trial.
Rafiki – All 4 – A moving drama exploring attitudes and laws around LGBTQ+ rights in Kenya. The daughters of two opposing politicians fall in love in this award-winning film. In English and Swahili/subs.
Feel Good – All 4 – New LGBTQ+ comedy drama created by and starring Mae Martin.
Sugar Rush – All 4 – Classic drama series based on the novel by Julie Burchill. Teenager Kim moves to Brighton and develops an earth-shattering, hormone-surging crush on her new best friend, Sugar.
Queer As Folk – All 4 – Ground breaking drama from the nineties that chronicles the lives of three gay men living in Manchester’s gay village around Canal Street.
Years and Years – BBC iPlayer – From Russell T Davies, an ordinary family contend with an uncertain future in that begins in 2019 and propels the characters 15 years forward into an unstable world.
Club Quarantine – A daily online queer party – more details on their Instagram account.
Jinkx Monsoon Playlist – Friend of Happy Valley Pride and RuPaul’s Drag Race winner, Jinkx Monsoon present their quarantine playlist (spotify:playlist:6RlQ9BoPrvLp0uFWfXnHZ)
Face of Frida – A look at the life and work of artist Frida Kahlo.
Keith Haring and Michael Basquiat: Crossing lines, a virtual art tour – National Gallery of Victoria present Queer artists Keith Haring and Michael Basquiat.
Vox Tox – daily pearls of wisdom from Sandi Togsvig
OutSavvy – the UK’s ticketing company, proudly raising money for LGBTQ+ charities. They have info on loads of great lockdown events such as virtual Cabaret from Annabelszki & Friends, Isolation Bingo with Charlie Hides, a Big Online Quiz from Pride in Surrey and much more… Updated regularly.
Go out without going out!
It is easy to go out without leaving your living room. You could watch the Bolshoi Ballet, or maybe a West End Musical is more your thing. You could take a tour of Tate Britain or keep an eye on the animals at Edinburgh Zoo. Maybe take a trip to Machu Picchu or browse The Lourve. We live in a time when the world is at our fingertips.
More on subscription services
There are a number of subscription services providing a huge amount of content. These include:
Amazon Prime includes Making the Cut, Booksmart and more.
Sky/Now TV includes Hitmen, Modern Family, Looking and more.
Netflix includes – AJ & The Queen, all of Studio Ghibli, God’s Own Country, Paris is Burning, Pose and more.